Of all the girls we come across as guys, and no matter how many conquests we might have had with the ladies, it’s still a mystery how at the end of it all, there always seem to be a dream girl for everyone.
That special lady on whom our deepest fantasies are centered, that girl or lady who in every sense of the word epitomizes the ideal or dream partner we’ve always wanted.
Most guys are oft to think that girls do not like them whereas on the contrary they hardly give the girls enough opportunity to get to even know them. How can she like someone she does not know?
A note here for the guys is to know and accept the fact that it is your role in the place of things to approach the lady you are interested in.
However, if you decide to wait around praying and hoping that one day, just maybe, she would walk up to you and doing the asking, you might as well just wait till the gray hairs start coming before you start your dating career. Wake up and make that move, guy.
Naturally, guys tend to be shy around women they like and the more interested they are in her, the shyer they generally tend to be and the more difficult it becomes to approach her.
Therefore, a sure way to start out on getting that girl of your dreams is to build up enough confidence about the person you truly are and just approach the girl in question. Be smart about this move.
Gradually start making yourself noticeable to her but avoid any act that tends towards stalking. Be friendly for a start with a little smile whenever you cross paths, and say those little hellos whenever the opportunity is presented. So, try and be that friendly guy for a starter.
To be a little more confident, whenever you are around her or other girls do not think you have to act or be different. You do not do that when you are with your guys, so stop doing that with the ladies. Think of them as just people and not as females from the opposite sex world. Be calm and relaxed as this surely will make you more incredibly attractive.
To ante up “the game” in gaining some extra confidence, get a little more education on who women are and how they think, act, talk, and learn about what motivates them to say “yes”.
If you do not have a basic understanding of how women behave and act in general, how then do you make them like you? Without this knowledge, how do you hope to sustain the attraction if you are able to get her to show interest in you? The more you understand about their psyche, the better your chances.
If you the lady of your dreams is a stunning beauty and as hot as you think, then it’s obvious you would have to stand out from the crowd in one way or another as there definitely would be a lot of other guys on the chase to win her heart.
Howbeit, if you have a hang-up about your looks then you are going to radiate outwardly that you are self-conscious and that you lack self-confidence and be sure that ladies have a sixth sense for such weaknesses.
Though you need not change who you are, you however need to try and present yourself more physically appealing. Try and make it a note to always appear presentable even if it is in a pair of jeans and a shirt. Get a good time piece and very importantly, a good pair of shoes.
In all you do, try and put up a more interesting and appealing demeanor and always remember that women need to be respected and therefore be more respectful toward women including their space.
